Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Southern California Local Leadership Training Days

Best Buddies California held 3 Leadership Training Days this Fall for our Southern California Friendship Programs. The training days were held on September 17th at Westview High School in San Diego, September 18th at Norte Vista High School in Riverside, and September 24th at Millikan High School in Long Beach.

High School and College Student officers, along with their club advisors, were invited to attend the training days this fall. Advisors were split into a breakout group during the trainings so they could network with other advisors in the area, and discuss common challenges as well as share successful ideas.  The High School and College Student Officers met together in a large group where they participated in workshops that covered a variety of topics including: Best Buddies History, Forming and Sustaining Successful Friendships, Bullying and Empowerment, Navigating the Best Buddies Online System, and Gathering Community Support for your local chapter.

LA and OC Student Leaders

In addition, the students learned about several Best Buddies / Special Olympics join initiatives- namely the Spread The Word To End The Word Campaign (www.r-word.org) and Eunice Kennedy Shriver Day.  The students brainstormed ideas about local events they could plan at their schools and in their communities to celebrate these 2 initiatives.

At the September 24th training, students were joined by 2 Special Guests, Jeanine Mason, from last season's show So You Think You Can Dance, as well as her boyfriend Beau, from the MTV show Awkward. Jeanine choreographed a fun dance to Lady Gaga's 'Born this way'. She taught the dance during a 45 minute session at the September 24th training, and students shared excitement over the upcoming Best Buddies flash mob- which will be held at a secret location in LA mid-October.  Best Buddies and Jeanine Mason hope to spread their mission of social inclusion with this flash mob, and raise awareness about Best Buddies California.

Jeanine Mason teaching a dance to our student officers

All 3 trainings were a great success, and nearly 200 student officers and advisors in Southern California left the trainings with new resources and ideas under their belts to lead successful programs at their respective chapters this year.

Monday, September 26, 2011

Bay Area Local Leadership Training Day Hosts Over 75 Student Officers, and New Chapters

The Bay Area office was stunned by the success our Local Leadership Training Day 2012. Over 75 student officers from around the Bay Area turned out! The training presented a local opportunity to attend sessions from the Best Buddies International Leadership Conference in Bloomington, Indiana.

Sessions included material on the history of disability rights, planning a chapter calendar and budget, and providing quality match support for buddy pairs. The training also provides the opportunity for local officers and chapters to connect and coordinate with each other.

The highlight of the conference included the star performance of Buddy Director Danny and Chapter President Victoria Liu. Danny and Victoria hailed from Foothill High School in Pleasanton, CA. They volunteered to perform a role-playing scenario in which they modeled a successful interview for a potential buddy or peer buddy. Victoria asked Danny about his motivations for joining a Best Buddies chapter, his commitment and availability, and his interests. Danny stood out as an articulate and self-assured young man – surely anyone would be lucky to have him as a friend, and his chapter is fortunate to have him as a leader. As Buddy Director, Danny represents students with IDD in his chapter’s officer corps.

Another highlight was the contribution of Special Education Advisor Rami Aweti to our conversation about disability rights. Program Manager May Tulin (author of this blog piece) gave a short presentation on the history of disability rights. The presentation brought up the topics of both social justice and civil rights, contextualizing Best Buddies part of the social movement for the rights of people with IDD. Mr. Aweti reminded the conference participants that special education is a key civil right, hard-won, for young people with disabilities. Best Buddies attempts to bridge the social divide that continues to exist between students in these two departments of public schools.

Mr. Aweti also represented one of 11 new Best Buddies chapters in San Francisco. He hails from Mission High School in San Francisco. The conference also hosted students from the new George Washington High School and the new Thurgood Marshall High School/San Francisco State University chapter.

As we are every year, BBCA was indebted to the Cal-Berkeley Best Buddies Chapter for hosting the event. This year, Cal senior Hagikah Birden put in extra volunteer hours to help secure and coordinate space for the event.

Many thanks to all those who attended this wonderful day!

Thursday, September 22, 2011

Rolling with it: My time hunting for ramps, jumping curbs, and waiting to park in the blue spaces

By Jessica Patton, Lead Employment Consultant, Best Buddies California Jobs Program

Last month, I fractured the fifth metatarsal of my left foot.  Actually, my doctor says I shattered it into about a half dozen pieces.  My mom always said that if I do something, I make sure that I do it right.  With very little time to digest the predicament, I found myself in a cast, prohibited from putting any weight on my foot for at least eight weeks and was told that not only was it likely that I would need surgery, but that I would need to stay off of that foot for another several weeks or even months after the surgery!   I went into a panic.  A broken foot and crutches would normally not cause a crisis in a person’s life.  Using crutches is merely a nuisance for most.  But I am a job coach for Best Buddies Jobs.  I follow around Kevin as he sweeps up in a busy warehouse at GUESS?, Inc. in downtown Los Angeles.   I coach Thomas and Alex at Sprouts Farmers Market in Culver City as they return “go-backs” to the shelves at the market and collect carts in the parking lot.  And I observe Jon as he goes on “runs” at Access Hollywood in Burbank, delivering tapes of commercials and stocking supplies in the production office.  I climb stairs, scale hills and walk blocks in one day, from one job site to the other.  I am in and out of the car, driving all over the city to different job sites and need to be efficient with my time.  In my panic, I wondered how in the world I was going to do my job if I couldn’t walk.

Everyone at Best Buddies California has been amazing as I figure out how to do my job with this new temporary disability.  Rachel Spooner, BBCA Jobs Program Supervisor, and Patricia Evans, BBCA State Director, helped me brainstorm how I could support my participants while taking care of myself.  I could spend more time making telephone calls checking-in with my participants and sending emails to their supervisors to see how our buddies are doing in meeting their goals.  I could do more work from the office and even work from home if the pain got to be too much.  

My doctor also helped me problem-solve this situation.  She gave me the form to take to the Department of Motor Vehicles stating that I needed a temporary disabled parking placard.  She also wrote me a prescription for a knee walker, which fortunately my insurance covered.  An alternative to crutches, it enables me to get around easily and independently, while I continue to coach my participants on their jobs.  Using my knee walker (or my wheeler, as I call it) means I have to avoid stairs.  If I can’t use a ramp or the elevator, I can’t get in.  If the sidewalks are broken (or don’t exist), if there aren’t any disabled parking spaces available, or if the curbs are too high for me to jump, I am seriously limited in my ability to get around.  

I have needed some of the accommodations that Rachel and Patty suggested, but I’m fortunate that I have been able to, for the most part, continue supporting my participants.  With the help of my wheeler, I can still help Thomas figure out where to put back the gluten-free cereal at Sprouts.  I can follow Kevin around as he sweeps up in the warehouse at GUESS?.  I can even go with Jon as he delivers the tapes downstairs at Access Hollywood.  It’s just not as easy as it used to be.

Even after 21 years of the Americans with Disabilities Act, there are still too many barriers for people with disabilities.  My temporary disability has given me a new point of view to some of the challenges that people with disabilities face every single day as they try to get around the city and live their lives independently.  The other day, I decided to go grab coffee with a friend at a coffee shop just around the corner from his house.  Normally, I would have made this short walk with no problem.  I would have enjoyed the exercise and the beautiful day.  But my wheeler made this day very different.  When I reached the busy intersection in Hollywood, I paused to survey the situation.  Cars in this intersection often rush pedestrians as they try to get to the 101 Freeway ramp, inching into the crosswalk and turning just as soon as they can squeeze by the pedestrian.  This always annoyed me, but I never felt scared or unsafe.  Yet on that day, I was genuinely worried.  I have to be extremely careful because my wheeler can tip over on bumps or cracks in the pavement.  I worried that I wouldn’t be able to concentrate on crossing the street, watch out for aggressive LA drivers, and keep myself upright all at the same time.  I did manage to cross the street without any mishaps, but my biggest problem came as I got to the end of the crosswalk – there was no ramp to get up over the curb.  I had to lift my wheeler (which weighs over twenty pounds) while balancing on one foot, then hop up over the curb to the safety of the sidewalk.  All this while a string of cars, attempting to turn right on red, were inching towards me.  I had to cross the road again to get to my destination and faced the same challenge.  Of the four corners of that intersection, only one had a ramp to get past the curb.  If I were in a wheelchair, I would have been stranded on the street, unable to get up onto the sidewalk.  I crossed that intersection a hundred times before my injury and never gave the ramps (or lack thereof) a thought until that day.  It was an eye-opening experience, not to mention scary.

Jessica P. on a ramp


I could give you dozens of examples of the barriers that I face as I go about my day.  Able-bodied women who use the disabled stall in the restroom because they like the extra space but don’t think about the people who use wheelchairs or other medical equipment that need the extra space.  Parking lots with only one disabled spot that’s taken by a vehicle without a disabled placard.  Buildings with one or two steps to get into the door and no ramp in sight.  Movie theaters that reserve the worst seats in the house for patrons with disabilities.  Who wants to sit in the front row of an IMAX movie anyway?  It was even a challenge for me to get into the Best Buddies California office. Before I broke my foot, I always went up the stairs to our second floor office.  When I started using my wheeler, I had to wheel around the entire building to find the elevator (there’s just one that goes to our floor).  I just hope the elevator isn’t out of order when I really need it.
  
In some ways, breaking my foot and using my wheeler has been a valuable experience for me.  The old adage says you can't really know a person until you walk a mile in their shoes.  I know this to be true.  Maybe using a wheelchair or other mobility assistive device for a day should be required training for all job coaches.  Not all of my participants have physical disabilities but some of them do and it changes how they can do their jobs.  I am an even better job coach because I see the obstacle course that is their life in this busy (and not so accessible) city and it is not easy. I believe that I will be even better at developing new jobs for participants who do have physical disabilities because I can see what some of their challenges may be and envision jobs that may be more suited to their unique challenges.

So when my foot is healed and I’m back to walking as usual, I’m going to keep these lessons in the back of my mind.  Instead of complaining about having to park blocks away from my destination and being annoyed that I have to walk up a few flights of stairs, I’m going to remind myself that I am so fortunate to be able to walk those blocks, cross those streets, and scale those steep stairs with no fear or worry.